The dangerous dismissal of women’s pain
We feel pain more intensely than men do, but we're also taken less seriously. Why?
- Reviewed by Toni Golen, MD, Editor in Chief, Harvard Women's Health Watch; Editorial Advisory Board Member, Harvard Health Publishing; Contributor

Just after sex, Vivian developed a headache so excruciating she went to urgent care. But the doctor immediately sent her home, telling her post-sex headaches are normal for midlife women like her. “It’s part of perimenopause,” he told Vivian.
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About the Author

Maureen Salamon, Executive Editor, Harvard Women's Health Watch
About the Reviewer

Toni Golen, MD, Editor in Chief, Harvard Women's Health Watch; Editorial Advisory Board Member, Harvard Health Publishing; Contributor
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